tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720131890691099122.post3006741119804157178..comments2023-10-30T09:38:51.632-04:00Comments on Pieces of Fate: 30 days of truth...day 4Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04623256635644408139noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720131890691099122.post-86796122532281555112010-11-21T16:56:26.877-05:002010-11-21T16:56:26.877-05:00*hugs*
I can relate to issues, but I have them wi...*hugs*<br /><br />I can relate to issues, but I have them with my mother (I think she has BPD). <br /><br />My specialist (who's also a psychiatrist) said to make a pretty sign that says "She will not change", and to look at that whenever my mother does something crazy, or screams at me for no reason.<br /><br />I think you need something like for all those who are hurtful to you. <br /><br />*hugs hugs hugs*Aelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11587641045662673457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720131890691099122.post-44509137951453509272010-11-18T14:26:32.195-05:002010-11-18T14:26:32.195-05:00phew, what a betrayal your friends did. They had ...phew, what a betrayal your friends did. They had no place to do any of that I think you are very good to forgive the one friend. I hope you have a lot of friends that you do trust and dont let that experience knock you back. I can only imagine what something like that would feel like. Hugs SaraSarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09089853600319812199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720131890691099122.post-46257485864598387442010-11-18T14:17:18.499-05:002010-11-18T14:17:18.499-05:00This is a very powerful, hopefully healing post. Y...This is a very powerful, hopefully healing post. You have been truthful with yourself and the world and I hope through this you find peace.<br />BlessingsFaerie Sagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13755963393512150190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6720131890691099122.post-67160245474037027412010-11-18T12:30:55.983-05:002010-11-18T12:30:55.983-05:00How painful, Sue that a beloved family member of y...How painful, Sue that a beloved family member of yours chose not to listen to her aunt and instead cut you off. Family if we get along with them, are so precious. And those friends of yours, it reminds me of high-school with all the whispers and innuendos and no one coming out and telling you what they need from you in terms of having a closer relationship. As Aine from "The Deepest Well" said, we can't force forgiveness. I also want to add, that forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting about something that has hurt you or saying it's o.k. what happened. It's about releasing any emotional bonds they have over you. A really good friend of mine said sometimes we have to pray "to be willing to be willing." Which is a great mantra for me. For your own peace of mind and heart, I hope you can let go for YOUR sake and release the pain you feel.Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05078434289667660306noreply@blogger.com